2020 the year of clear vision // no mo' saviors // taking responsibility for the toxicity showing up
- Salma Summers
- Nov 17, 2019
- 3 min read
2020. the year of clear vision. no more toxic shit is sliding by anyone's’ doors.
these last few months of this year have given us a preview of what’s to come in 2020.
there is a split happening in the world.
toxic people are becoming more toxic.
conscious people are becoming more conscious.
and we’re all starting to see more clearly.
people are speaking in ways that depict an accurate description of who they are.
in other words, people are showing their true colors.
2020 is going to be a year where you’re going to think everyone took some kind of drink that no longer lets them pretend.
we’re going to see people at their core.
truths that have been hidden for a long time will surface.
liars aren’t all of a sudden going to become more honest, it’s just that we will be able to see the lies clearly.
the veil is so thin right now but in 2020 it will be nonexistent.
which means you can’t make excuses for bullshit and the people spewing it.
but it isn't all or nothing.
we will see things for what they are AND we will love them as they are BUT we will no longer excuse them or feel sorry for them.
we’ve created a split in our world with the victim/victimizer/savior paradigm.
for a long time, we have thrown pity parties for victims without really looking at the root of what is happening.
what happens to us is never our fault but it is always our responsibility to heal ourselves.
there are horrific things that happen, but the things that happen do not define who we are. i once heard Mooji say be like the screen on which images are projected if there is a huge fire on the screen, the screen is not burnt by it.
we are consciousness and we are having a human experience and then we go back to being consciousness. this physical incarnation won’t last more than 150 years. that is probably a billionth of a second if we are looking at the big picture.
holding onto stories and hatred and rage and blame hasn’t served anyone and won’t serve us moving forward.
the people who have been “saviors” are becoming more conscious and recognizing that trying to save and fix everyone doesn’t actually move the needle forward.
and that frankly, we can’t save anyone even if we wanted to.
and without the saviors, hero’s and fixers (they are all the same archetype), people are going to see the truth.
for far too long we have excused toxic behavior.
in 2020 not only are we going to see everyone else’s shit but we are going to see our own.
so here are a few questions to ask yourself before we move into this new year of clear vision.
where am i still playing out old stories that don’t serve me?
how does powerlessness show up in my life?
who in my life is always complaining and blaming?
do i validate this behavior? or do i gently guide them back to their power?
it is SO important to be a loving space for those who are in pain but stop feeding people approval when they really need accountability. stop allowing people to come to you with the same stories over and over again.
watch closely the way you relate to people. there will be patterns and these patterns will only get clearer and clearer.
in 2020, we are going to redefine how we relate to ourselves and others.
Affirmation: i choose to see clearly and i accept what i see. i lovingly hold space and that is enough. i am willing to release all need to fix and save. i accept everything as is.
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