how people are tricked out of their abundance and the most important question to ask yourself
- Salma Summers
- Mar 3, 2020
- 3 min read
i often ask myself - how can i give more?
i find that when so much has been taken from you, giving can become something that feels scary. you can easily get caught in the trap of selfishness - especially if all you’ve ever been told is that you are selfish.
when people gaslight others to get more from them than they are willing to give, they often paint the other person as evil and selfish. this projection usually sinks into the subconscious of those being accused and in turn, becomes their reality.
true freedom comes from being able to give but if your ability to give has been tainted because you don’t want to be taken advantage of - then more times than not, you end up playing yourself.
the lack matrix is fueled by false promises of attaining something for nothing. in this matrix, people believe that they can get over others, without having to give anything.
something for nothing - that is the motto.
it’s the reason why people go out their way for anything labeled FREE.
free ONLY being a label because everything has its costs.
the amount of time and effort and energy being omitted is usually much more expensive than whatever free thing is being promised.
but that’s the thing about our world - we don’t recognize the true cost of things. our understanding of value has been misconstrued.
your time, energy and attention are your most valuable resources. you trade that every single day - in every interaction you are having with the world.
these resources translate to money only if you are aware of how to allocate them - otherwise, you are trading them for whatever value someone else places on them.
if someone else determines your value, you can almost always guarantee they will sell you short - however, if you determine your own value … the price tag is limitless.
so wherever you are in life right now - keep this in mind, you are worth whatever you decide that you are worth.
how you experience life is directly correlated to the value you place on the resources that have been given to you by the divine.
the reason why there are a million and one books pointing back to the same notion - that you are born rich - is because you have been given the resources necessary to create abundance.
keyword, create. it isn’t about being passive. it’s about serving. it is about giving. it’s about finding what others need and using your resources to solve their problem - in whichever manner you feel called to do so.
your riches are invisible - like heaven. but it isn’t impossible to make them visible - it is actually quite simple.
you just have to remove all the debris that stands in your way - all the false beliefs that undermine your worth.
start with this question -
how can i give more?
and then go out of your way to use your resources to give - not for a paycheck but to get acquainted with what it looks like to serve from a place of true exchange of energy.
most people have been conditioned to serve so that they can get paid, but the moment you recognize how to serve because you can and because you want to - you will have found the keys that unlock your true riches.
it’s all a process - i am still figuring it out myself but i do know one thing for sure - if you believe that you can get something for nothing - you will never gain anything. but if you give with the intention to use your resources to make the world a better place, you will gain a true sense of purpose (which is everything).
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